Changing Narratives: Disability and Identity l Eno Okpo
I remember a little girl, Rebecca, living in a remote Nigerian village. She couldn’t walk & had no access to a wheelchair. I resonated with her because I struggled growing up in the face of disabilities resulting from Polio. More so than these physical challenges, the way people look at you eats at your soul. Their stares of pity and fear are humiliating. The lack of empathy makes you feel helpless and almost not human. Where I come from, communities don’t rally behind kids who can’t pull their weight. Instead, they ostracise & abuse them.
Through E-enable, I commit to raising awareness about people with special needs. In 2007, I started the organization to educate families of disabled kids. I give my heart & energy to explain how those with disabilities are just like others but their needs are just a bit different. These children will respond beautifully to your patience, love, and support. With a loving family, they too can grow up and live a fulfilling life. I often share stories of Helen Keller, Stephen Hawking, Frida Kahlo, Franklin D Roosevelt, and others who have transcended their special needs through the determination, kindness, and support of their close ones.⠀
A person’s disability does not define their personality unless you allow it to. I have been trying to help those in need to develop skills that enable them to live independently. I remember a young woman whose father was afraid of what would happen to his precious daughter when he was gone. She went on to become my best student. She now makes and sells cardigans to support herself. Knowing that I contributed to her self-sufficiency and that she is doing well gives me inner peace.⠀